Who is Nat?
So, if we’re gonna be going deep together, you probably wanna know a bit about me and what else I love doing apart from supporting women to feel empowered.
I love anything 70s – especially music and fashion. My dream car is a 1970 purple convertible beetle.
One of my favourite possessions is my 1970s record player!
I’m a massive goon with a very childish sense of humour (yes, I still find drawing a cock and balls on my friends’ birthday cards absolutely hilarious!).
I’m gonna blow my own trumpet here, but I’m an awwwwesome percussionist – djembe being my fave instrument of choice.
I’m a bit hippy, a bit rock and roll, a bit grunge, maybe with a splash of hipster and a sprinkling of nerd.
Born in the mid-80s in Portsmouth, UK. Cancer Sun, Libra Moon, Virgo Rising. Venus and Mercury are also in Cancer. Yep, that’s a lot of emotion right there.
I absolutely LOVE to travel, go to festies and have a hell of a lot of FUN.
My core values: Playfulness, Freed Honesty and Courage
My relationship history: what led me to become a women’s relationship coach?
I I’ll be frank with you — I’ve been in a lot of relationships.
And in most of them, I gave my power away.
I became who I thought my partner wanted me to be.
I didn’t speak my truth.
I didn’t honour my needs.
I constantly sought validation so I could feel… safe.
The result? I completely lost myself.
After many “failed” relationships, I made a powerful commitment:
My connection to myself would become my absolute priority.
I became devoted to understanding relationships, not just how to “make them work,” but how to stay anchored in myself within them.
I immersed myself in attachment theory, mindfulness, Non-Violent Communication, embodiment practices, and conscious relating.
But more than that, I did the work.
I got radically honest about:
• my patterns
• my fears
• my relational triggers
• my needs
• my standards
Becoming ME.
Before entering any new relationship, I became deeply clear about my values, my boundaries, and the kind of partnership I desired.
I learned how to express my needs with honesty and vulnerability.
I learned how to hold myself through discomfort instead of abandoning myself.
I learned how to choose from self-trust rather than fear.
And that changed everything.
Now, whether single or partnered, I know what it feels like to be:
Secure.
Expressed.
At home in myself.
That is the work I support women to do.
Not to “find a man.”
But to never lose themselves again.
Qualifications to becoming a women’s relationship coach
Using what I’ve learned through my studies, as well as what I’m moving through in my own relationship, I can now say I have become pretty good at disentangling from unhelpful habits and beliefs, stepping back into my power and expressing my needs and vulnerability in a way that brings more closeness, intimacy and connection in my relationship.
In 2021, I completed my training as a Sacred Depths coach, facilitated by the amazing Joanna Lindenbaum, which has helped me refine my skills as a coach to create a safe, strong container for women to do their deepest work.
It is my desire that my clients leave our container together feeling freer, more secure, and with a deep knowing that they have a home within themselves with all the resources they need to have a deeply fulfilled, thriving and truly loving relationship!
I work with single women and women in relationships.
