1:1 Mentorship
Stop Losing Yourself in Love
A 6-month Private Coaching Container For Women Ready To Stop Abandoning Themselves In Relationships.
This is for you if:
• You lose yourself when you like someone
• You over-accommodate and then feel resentful
• You morph into who you think they want you to be
• You struggle to express your real needs
• You fear you’ll “ruin it” if you’re fully yourself
• You swing between anxiety and shutdown
• You’re exhausted by repeating the same relational pattern
Different face. Same dynamic.
You don’t need another man.
You need a stronger relationship with yourself inside connection.
That’s the work.
“When I first found Nat, I was struggling in my relationship..
I had been in other long-term relationships that hadn’t worked out, and I was in a new-ish relationship, and deeply concerned about making what felt like it might be the “wrong choice” in love…again.
I was feeling a lot of fear coming up, and I really wanted someone I could trust to help me sort through some of my baggage & help me make aligned decisions.
With Nat’s support, I was able to uncover patterns about my own behaviors & beliefs in relationships, to see how I could trust myself even more as I made choices about my relationship, and to keep remembering to listen to myself.
After working with Nat, I feel more honest with myself & my partner, and I trust myself even more to make the most loving choices for myself as I move forward. This means the world to me. Thank you, Nat.”
Solveig Pedersen, Life, Love, & Leadership Coach – https://solandheart.com
You don’t need another man.
You need a stronger relationship with yourself inside connection.
That’s the work.
“Nat’s series of workshops were profound and life-changing. She held an energetic space for transformation and healing throughout the whole course.
I identified deep-seated beliefs and fears which were ruling my reactions and decisions and learnt how to re-write them in a matter of minutes with simple exercises. Natalie held a safe online space with compassion and love and genuine enthusiasm and passion for her work. Thank you Nat!”
Jenny Asha Lily Wilde
What We Do Together
Over six months, we will:
• Identify where and how you self-abandon
• Understand your attachment patterns without shaming them
• Build nervous system safety so love doesn’t feel like a threat
• Learn how to communicate clearly without collapsing or attacking
And over time, you’ll begin to:
• Strengthen your ability to tolerate vulnerability
• Separate what’s yours, what’s theirs, and what belongs to the dynamic
• Develop deep self-trust in relational decisions
• Practice staying rooted in yourself in real time
Whether you’re single, dating, or partnered — the pattern is the same.
We work on you.
So that no matter who you’re with, you don’t disappear.
“I was able to gain an in-depth understanding of my historical relational patterns, which were becoming toxic to myself, my partner and my relationship…
Throughout our journey together, we used a variety of methods to explore what truly underpins my triggers and how to respond differently when they arise. I was able to shine a light on my patterns and behaviours and was given the chance to explore why they have come about and tools to use so that I can respond differently when they do.
Through the light of my own consciousness, carefully guided by Nat, I have been able to release some of my negative patterns of behaviour towards myself and my partner, and even challenge my own belief systems. Alongside being a natural facilitator, it was always evident that Nat deeply cared about me and my individual, relational journey.
Thank you so much, Nat!”
Bethany Teague
My work is heavily influenced by the following teachers and practices
What’s Included:
• I2 x 75-minute private sessions (fortnightly over 6 months)
• 2 x 75-minute private sessions (fortnightly over 6 months)
• Voice / WhatsApp support between sessions (reply within 24–48h)
• Follow-up integration notes + practice
• Deep pattern work, nervous system regulation, communication training
• Real-time support navigating live relationship situations
Investment:
£2,222 paid in full or 6 x £370
(£100 non-refundable deposit)
“Working with Nat is such a clarifying, enriching and empowering process..
She truly listens and brings so much awareness to my heartache and desires. I had so many insights that have shifted my trajectory for the better. It’s all about my relationship to myself, which I know intellectually, but this work highlights the gaps in my emotional landscape. I can now truly recognise on the deepest level that everything mirrors this divine connection with myself.
Nat brings so much heart and humour to every session. We laugh, we cry & heal through the awesome authenticity the space allows. I’m so grateful for our time together, I’m still integrating my insights and walk a new talk. You’re a legend!”
Celia Peachey – Female Empowerment Coach
https://www.celiapeachey.com/